“I was diagnosed with HSV2 when I was 20 years old. I have to be honest and admit that my physical appearance has always been like a security blanket for me. If I had nothing, I had beauty. That's just how it had always felt for me. When I received my diagnosis, I felt my identity being ripped away from me. I felt I had no value left. I remember that night I put on a ton of makeup and did my hair.. all just to look in my bathroom mirror and not recognize myself anymore. I had always found my personal value in my sexuality and my overall physical appearance, and now, what did I have left? I have spent the last 4 years learning to love myself for all of the other great qualities I possess, and I have also slowly learned that my beauty and my sexuality are still valid and mine to own! Herpes is one of the reasons I know my value beyond the surface, and I hope I can help others see the silver lining.“